Spiritual practices are incomplete if you are doing same as others, you will also be confused like them because your available information is incomplete. To get something different and unique you need to learn different from books.
Spirituality is not religion. Perceiving spirituality as religion or religion as spirituality can cause fear and confusion. Only religion-less knowledge will eradicate your dependency on outer world and create light within. Spiritual development is never possible without worldly detachment. If you are being spiritual to gain worldly things then you are on wrong path. Worldly failure is the symptom of success in spiritual world.
Spirituality is for soul and religion is for body. You need to change your path, if you are practicing spirituality with body and religion with soul. There is no need to learn how to attach with the soul, if you know how to detach from the body (world).
Spirituality does not preach to leave everything; it only helps to understand what is to be adopted and what is to be avoided in the world.
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